its just not fair

well i knew this was coming and all that and i know its the military but i am just getting so upset . well sam was at training for about 6 months before iraq, he had almost 2 months more training then anyone else cuz he would go to 2 weeks extra specialty things here and there. well he left for iraq in sep with a small group of guys to get things set up. the rest of his unit left in oct . and i was already upset he left before everyone, but i thought he would be coming home first so i was ok with it . well are 3rd group of guys will b home in the next few days. these are the guys who left in oct some came home 3 weeks ago some 2 weeks ago and now some in the next few days. my hubby who left a month before the others will not be home for 3 almost 4 more weeks. i am just so fucking jealous and sad and angry and ahh. ya . my 15 month old daughter asks me everyday were daddy and says daddy go bye bye, she thinks he lives in the comp. she trys to open my laptop she crys for her daddy and the only way she will calm down half the time is watching videos and looking at pics of him. my hubby is a exemplary marine ha has alot of very high qualifications and is moving up very fast he has picked up a rank that usually takes 8 years he did it in 3. he is very good at his job and goes above and beond he is put in higher positions then anyone his rank. but still i dont understand how they justify keeping a dad and a husband in iraq 2 months longer then anyone when most of the guys coming home dont have kids the dont have wifes they dont even have girlfriends. how is that fair or ok. i dont know i am just so upset and jealous and mad and everything . ugh . i dunno .i just miss him so much i guess...